Sex is most important thing in life – trolls call me bad mum but
Written by on May 16, 2023
A woman called out trolls for saying she’s a bad mum as she believes “sex is the most important thing in life”.
Dating coach Emily Deeley faces a lot of abuse for her controversial opinions on intimacy.
But nothing is off limits to the mum-of-two when it comes to achieving ultimate satisfaction in the bedroom.
She shared her saucy tips which include why having rendezvous with sex workers is “essential” for any relationship.
Emily also revealed why men should date younger women and hacks on “pulling” a step-sibling or step-parent.
The 27-year-old received a lot of negative feedback online with trolls calling her an “awful mum”.
She said: “We’re here on this planet to love and have children.
“Sex is a normal part of this process and is the most natural thing a human can do.
“I believe that people are stuck in their ways and are very close-minded nowadays.
“I have had people call me a slut, an awful mother and say social services should be called on my kids.
“If people just open their eyes to new ways, they can experience wonderful things.”
Emily became a qualified dating coach in December 2022, focusing on helping single mums especially.
However, she soon found that men wanted her help too.
Emily, who boasts 77,000 TikTok followers, added: “Sex is important to establish if there’s chemistry with someone.
“I find it very hard to have ‘outstanding’ sex, because it involves such a strong attraction and this is a rare encounter.
“I think people need to understand that sex sells and no one should ever be shamed upon anyone for what they do.
“Sex isn’t dirty and can be fun with whoever you like.”
Now Emily shared her top five tips…
Cheating is never okay – unless it’s with an escort
The mum believes that while dabbling with lovers isn’t acceptable, there is one exception: doing it with professionals.
According to Emily, bonking sex workers or escorts is “forgivable” and should be encouraged.
Since men and women pay for the service, there isn’t an emotional connection involved.
Honesty is key – even with family
Although Emily encourages being honest and open with family about sexual feelings, these fantasies can carry issues.
She said: “Many men are interested in step-siblings or step-mums as a sexual fantasy.
“I have experienced a situation where the man was in love with his step-sister.
“But due to the nature of the situation it seemed to be causing a negative impact on the family.
“For this reason, I didn’t advocate pursuing it.
“However, I had a client who was sleeping with his partner’s mum, but it remained a secret.”
Age gaps equal happiness
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As a general rule, the mum believes men should date women who are half their age, plus seven years.
Women need an older man to protect, value and stimulate them, Emily admitted.
Size doesn’t matter
Emily believes women actually prefer smaller penises.
She added: “Men like to think size matters, but in reality, women like an average or smaller penis.
“A large penis hurts and feels uncomfortable, it’s also harder in regards to have anal sex as it’s so painful.
“Good sex is all about the dominance of a man, communication and chemistry between two people.”
Bring children on dates
As a single mum, Emily, who has kids aged five and 11 months, has struggled with finding a babysitter before a date.
But a test to figure out what a man wants is to bring your little ones along.
She concluded: “I wouldn’t have a problem with a man bringing his child on a first date, in fact, I would appreciate it.
“Also, how gentle and loving he is with a child may show how much of an in tune lover he is in the bedroom.”
