‘My sister is addicted to wild sexy – she met a Z’
Written by ABC AUDIO on October 18, 2022
The woman is out of control. She’s recently single and hurting.
She was deeply in love with her ex-partner. But he dumped her in June after a silly argument over getting a cat (my suspicion is that he was looking for an excuse to pick a fight).
He walked into the arms of his ex-boss, who he now lives with.
For weeks my sister begged him to go back to her. She turned up at his work, got down on her knees and cried, but he shook her off like a piece of trash.
Now I have to fake interest as she boasts about all the fellas she’s bedding. In the past few weeks, she’s got off with strangers in clubs and on the internet.
She’s drinking too much and giving herself away. It breaks my heart to see her lost and crushed.
My husband says she’s a disgrace. He hits the roof any time he catches us chatting.
We run a successful business and he resents her hanging around because she distracts me and is obsessed with herself.
The other day I expressly told her that I had important clients coming in and wouldn’t be able to see her or answer my mobile.
Yet she still badgered me with urgent “ring me now” texts until I finally gave in and picked up. She was desperate to brag about a Z-list celebrity she’d met in a nightclub and performed oral sex on. She thought it was hilarious. How was that urgent?
And what does that say about her attitude towards me?
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JANE SAYS: Your sister clearly isn’t thinking straight.
Having been hurt and
humiliated by her ex, she’s decided to let rip and please herself but she’s being selfish and immature.
Suddenly she doesn’t give two hoots for your job, your business or your relationship. She’s only interested in herself and needs an audience in order to feel alive.
If she didn’t have you to brag to, what would she do? You give her an outlet and, no doubt, she assumes you’re impressed by her racy life.
But it all sounds rather immature, tawdry and pathetic to me. She is so wrapped up in her own little world of sex, men and partying that she’s forgotten who she really is.
Pluck up the courage to have a face-to-face chat. Tell her that you can’t handle any more sexy revelations or dramas because you have a life to live and a business to run. What about her sexual health? Her personal safety and her reputation?
Will she agree to calm down and take stock? The fact is that she won’t pay your bills if you lose a valuable client, will she?
As for your husband, explain to him that his unbending attitude isn’t helping your mental health either.
At the moment you find yourself being pulled in two different directions and that’s not sustainable or fair.
Get tough with the pair of them and start living the life you want.
